Wednesday, November 20, 2013


A Fall Reflection

 

             It’s the time of year when fall has taken over for good. No more leaves hanging on tenaciously, refusing to give up to make way for the winter. The last of the geese have flown south. Everything is bare in comparison to summer and fall colors. A time of death for the annuals, who will only live vicariously through the growth of their seeds next spring. A time of partial dying for the perennials who will burst forth in their new life come springtime. Can’t help but be a somewhat reflective time of year.
 

            I, along with others had to bury a great man not to long ago. The greatest man I have known, a man I had the privilege of calling a friend, a friendship of unequal’s to be sure, but a friend indeed. Although I did not hear it this time,  it is not uncommon at these times to hear the statement from comforters who say, “Well, at least he died doing what he loved.” And I have nodded in agreement. Yes, surely that is a blessing. So much so that even I would like to be blessed in that way.

             But, I have always felt an uneasiness with that statement being quite an adequate eulogy. I think I know now what unsettled me. It’s this. What is the most important? That I do what I love? Or what it is that I love?

             Mightn’t I love the wrongs things and then have hell to pay?

              I think it is great if I can do what I love, maybe even die doing it, but I so want to make sure that I am loving the right things.

             I must make sure my loves are right. An awesome responsibility. Then, and only then, do I want to do what I love.

             My aged friend was a pilot that guided so many of us in the pursuit of getting that right. May he rest in Peace.

Have a great day!

David

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